First published October 21, 2013
You will brave busy, crowded airports.
You will drive hundreds of miles on lonesome stretches of road.
You will put up with rain, snow, sleet, locusts, and truck stop bathrooms to feel their hug or hear their voice.
This has been our life for the past eight years since they transferred my parents, first to Peoria, Illinois, (3 hours away), then to Chattanooga, Tennessee (11 hours away).
Desperate to see each other, we all have done everything we can to make sure we get time together. It wasn’t until this past year that an easier option to sneak in a visit with Mamie and Papa was to meet them in a city halfway between our respected towns.
This halfway point for both of us is Louisville, Kentucky; a city we all had never really been to before.
Oh sure, I had driven through it but we’d never stayed or explored the area.
Boy, was that ever a huge mistake.
Louisville is absolutely beautiful, the people were so friendly and the weather was gorgeous the entire weekend we were there.
The girls were all over my parents the entire weekend.
Maybe my husband and I were too.
So here is the thing, I forgot to take pictures of the most important thing, besides fellowship with family: the food.
Because in the south, food is a “thing”.
The major attraction, if you will.
Yes, I know, food is a “thing” in the Midwest too, but in the south, it’s a “THING“.
My mom did some research on places to see, visit, do, and eat before she left home.
This you need to know about my mom, she is the travel/attraction/restaurant pundit of the family.
When you are going out to eat, ignore Zagat, and email my mom.
I am not even kidding.
Seriously, I will give you her email address.
She basically planned every single family trip for us growing up, all by herself.
No AAA, no travel agent, and this was back in the day of …..gasp….no Internet.
She would send her homing pigeons (aka the Mobil Guide) to areas unknown and would come up with the coolest restaurants, the prettiest gardens, and the best hotels.
My mom is tha’ bomb, but especially as it pertains to travel.
So when she emailed us a list of places to must see a few days before, we were not disappointed.
Mark’s Feed Store is a Louisville staple, and the food is Kentucky at its best.
One word: Burgoo.
It’s this amazing stew with what I think was BBQ shredded meat. I am not making it sound appetizing at all, but it was fantastic.
We got a small bowl and shared it around the table.
Next time, I think we will each get our own.
2020 note- maybe this was how COVID was started?
I want to mention this. The manager of the restaurant came up to our table and asked how our meal was, which isn’t at all unusual. But he told us that the server told him this was our first visit and he started telling us all about his restaurant, of which he was so proud, which was really nice. Steven Spielberg and Lady Gaga had eaten there, among other celebrities. But then he tells us we all get a free dessert! AND a bottle of BBQ sauce to take home! I LOVE LOUISVILLE.
Downtown Louisville is full of history and has a really cool vibe.
This building was being held up by these metal bars.
I swear this was the only building like this in Louisville.
The entire town is not falling down.
I am not making a case for downtown Louisville.
On our way to the Louisville Slugger Museum!
I wanted to buy a horse after being here.
I wanted to be wealthy after being here.
Okay, so time to fill you in on a little inside bathroom humor joke.
So a few years ago we were at my parent’s house and my dad had gone to the bathroom and had been in there for a while.
Don’t act all innocent, everybody poops. Geesh.
When he came out of the bathroom (with the sports section AND the results of the Kentucky Derby under his arm) he announced this, “BIG BROWN WON THE DERBY!!!”
Now, we knew what he meant LITERALLY (Big Brown was an actual horse who did indeed win the Derby that day) but when someone comes out of a bathroom and says, “BIG BROWN WON THE DERBY”…… well that is just pretty damn funny.
The laughter that day. Oh, my word.
I might have laughed so hard I snorted.
And tinkled a little.
Snorted AND tinkled a little.
Standing in the winner’s circle, because I am a winner too.
2020 note- I miss those shoes.
So we are going back for sure.
Next time we are heading to Lexington, Kentucky as well because of the Kentucky Horse Park.
Oh, and two things I wanted to experience in Louisville that we didn’t have time to were a Kentucky Hot Brown and bourbon.
Kentucky Hot Brown is nothing like Big Brown, ahem.
It’s a sandwich, apparently, but we didn’t have time to eat one.
Yes, I know we can make one at home, but it’s not the same.
Bourbon is a Kentucky staple, so I was also kind of sad we didn’t get to experience a mint julep.
Yes, I know I can also make one of these at home as well.
Might need to get me an enormous hat, make me a hot brown and a mint julep, and watch Big Brown on the television set.
It felt like I was speaking an unfamiliar language in that sentence, didn’t it?
Getting away for a weekend felt like a world away, literally.
I am so glad we got to see Mamie and Papa and the girls are too.
I only wish it didn’t go so fast.
Until next time…
2020 note- I’m so glad they live close and we see them all the time now. I know they miss the south so much and that breaks my heart for them, especially now that they are kind of stuck with the pandemic. But I am so grateful to have them near us during this time, as they mean so much to all of us. 🙂
13 thoughts on “BBQ, Big Brown and Burgoo”
We'll be visiting for sure! Hubby was sold on the idea!
It was the Big Brown story the solidified it.Wasn't it?
Getting Lucky in Kentucky!!! (I just needed to say that). I too have spent many a many many many drives through Louisville in my life en route to IL and if we ever stopped, it was for White Castles. White Castles. The closest White Castle to where I live is Corbin, Kentucky. Okay, you needed to know that. But anywhoo. Going to Kentucky now. Join me for a Mint Julep?!
OMG yes, YES! Meet ya in Kentucky for a Julep!
You are a winner!Let me know when you go to Lexington. I'll jump in your trunk.
Lexington is next year…..come along!!
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What a great idea to meet 1/2 way… not I’m using google maps to see what’s 1/2 way between my sister and I! Sounds like you had a fabulous trip. I am the planner of our vacations and pick out restaurants, attractions, etc. to see and do but I have had to learn to use them as suggestions and go with the flow (as I was pretty bad with that on our first few vacations!).
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It is kind of hard to figure out what I halfway between cities. I believe there is a website that helps with that now but back then, it took some serious math equations. 🙂
I give a lot of credit to anyone who plans vacations. I feel like you either have that gene or you don’t; there is no middle ground.
Two of my friends got married in Louisville. To each other, I mean, so it was just one wedding, but I’d happily take another excuse to go there because it is a fun town. I’d take your mother’s advice on where to go over anything I could find on Google too, although my friends’ parents live there so they have a pretty good idea of what’s shakin’.
And I thought one of the required ingredients of burgoo was squirrel…
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I never got to go back but I want to get back there because it was lovely!
My mom is so good at planning vacations. Sadly, I am not. Which is probably why I haven’t been back. HA! I might need to look up your friend’s parents.
Okay, I don’t want burgoo any more.
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I love this. Meeting halfway was a great idea! Louisville looks lovely. I must get there someday. ❤️
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It was a beautiful place to meet. I hope to someday get back there. ❤️