Humor, Nonsense, Tater Tots

Screw it, I’m Eating Tater Tots- Episode 21 Do We Know It’s Christmas Time?

I will get on with the random in just a moment but I want to ask you favor. I just got word last week that a childhood friend of mine needs some serious cheering up and considering last week’s Christmas card post, I knew I could count on my loyal readers to help.

I want to flood my friend Tonda’s mailbox at the Oak Grove Manor Nursing Home in Ohio because she is very dear to me and to a lot of other people we went to high school with. She is fighting a terminal illness during COVID when no one can visit. She is really lonely and is feeling quite sad. So if you have an extra card, would you mind sending one her way with a brief note of encouragement?

Here are the details:


Oak Grove Manor

1670 Crider Road 

Mansfield, Ohio 44903

Attention: Allison

*and yes, we got her permission to share the information on this very public site. It is that dire of a circumstance. 

If you have a friend who loves to write or loves to send cards, you are more than welcome to pass this information on! I would love for Tonda to get an overwhelming amount of mail from all around the globe! Keep the cards light and happy, if you would. Thank you so much ahead of time. 🙂

Do you know I used to be obsessed with Menudo?


Not the soup.

52 Mexican Menudo Photos - Free & Royalty-Free Stock Photos from Dreamstime

The Puerto Rican boy band was hugely popular in the early to mid-80s all over Latin America and in Los Angeles and Miami and parts of New York City.


Gallery For > Menudo Band Original Members | Singer, Band, The originals
Courtesy/ Pinterest


And in rural Central Ohio.

With me.


When I didn’t also love ball playing kitties


I don’t honestly know how I became so obsessed with Menudo between the years of 1982-1984 but now that I think about it; I blame Bop Magazine.  I wallpapered the walls of my room with that magazine’s cutouts of Ricky, Ray, Charlie, Roy, and the other guy (I didn’t really like him, but it didn’t stop me from taping his face all over my room).

At 13, I even mailed away to get tourism information from the Puerto Rican tourism board. Why? What in the hell was I doing with that information??


Puerto Rico Travel Guide | Visitor Information | Discover Puerto Rico
Courtesy/Discover Puerto Rico

When it arrived in my mailbox in a massive yellow envelope the size of a college acceptance package, I was so excited!

Then I pasted that shit all over my walls too.


MENUDO.Puerto Rican music group.Supplied by Photos, inc..Ricky Stock Photo - Alamy
Who let the second-grader out on a school night?


Then Ricky Martin came along and I was like WHAT IN THE HELL, HE’S LIKE 10! Isn’t that illegal?

By the way, he looked like this:


50 Ricky Martin File Photos Photos and Premium High Res Pictures - Getty Images


And make this song:


Back when this song came out (no pun intended) in 1999, I told all of my friends that, ahem; I discovered him first.

People made fun of my Menudo obsession back in the 80s and all I know is that I liked boy bands before they were cool.

So I guess that makes me a trendsetter.


Meditating With Candles and Incense
Courtesy- Elly Fairytale (Pexels)


Do you need good vibes?



So I’ve been learning that we need to raise our vibration. It’s not as dirty as it sounds (unfortunately) but long story short, the lower your vibration, the worse off you are.

An easier way to think of this:

Low vibration = negative vibes

High vibration = positive vibes


I had a holy shit moment this past fall.

I looked at all the things that lower my vibration and at one point; I was doing all of them.




If you do all of those things too, you’re not alone.

There were days I was doing every single one of them.

Some days within one HOUR.

But there are things you can do that help to raise your vibration.



Because it is unrealistic to think you have to give up all that other negative stuff at once. We are human and we need to go easy on ourselves. Why? Because we are carrying some heavy burdens.

I see you and I see that invisible burden you are carrying.

My invisible burdens were the reason I was doing a lot of that negative low vibration shit. Because if I feel like shit? I was going to make others feel like shit too.

It took a lot of soul homework to come to that realization.

More of that soon to come.

But for real. I see you. It’s all good.

Let’s listen to some music instead of gossiping. 🙂

Do you need a squirrel in underpants?



Yes, you do.

2020 seems like just the year to be signified by having a squirrel wearing underpants on your tree, doesn’t it?




Do you need this recipe?


Salted Caramel Muddy Buddies
Courtesy/ A Pumpkin and a Princess

Five words – Salted caramel Rolo Muddy Buddies.


Do you know that this song was about John Lennon?


The Universe plopped this song into my lap one rainy October evening:


I used to love this song when it was popular (also during my middle school years) but I never knew what the song was about. So I looked it up, and I found out it was a tribute to John Lennon who was assassinated a year and a half before. I felt it only appropriated to share it in this month’s tater tot post.

40 years after John Lennon’s untimely death.

Do you need to watch this?


YES, you do. This girl is so brave.


As I mentioned before, I have been doing soul homework since July and this documentary is in line with all I have been learning. It is definitely worth watching on Netflix.


I watched this movie one evening in October while I was putting together an IKEA coffee table and it was as random as that sentence. But it was also a bit comforting because it is mostly based in the 70s, as was most of my childhood. And Helen Reddy just died this past fall, and it felt like I needed to honor her.


I have finally begun the series The Crown,. My parents have been watching this for years and have loved this series, and now I am hooked as well. I am fascinated by the Royal Family, but even if you aren’t I think you will love this show.


Mike and I found this one evening and were intrigued because we had both heard of Steve Aoki BUT we had no idea that his dad was the founder of the Benihana restaurant chain! This was a crazy cool documentary about music, the Japanese culture, and family dynamics.


We watched this on Thanksgiving night and she is a hoot. Another one to add to the standup comedian list.


This should be in the music section below, but I added it here instead. This song is written and performed by Eddie Van Halen’s son Wolfgang. Read the article from Rolling Stone here about the details but long story short. He and his dad were very close, and this song is Wolfgang’s loving tribute to his dad, Eddie Van Halen, after his death. Make sure you listen all the way to the end. Tears. The good kind.

Do you need to listen to this?


Here are some songs I have been playing on auto-repeat lately.











Here is where you most likely have heard Steve Aoki before, but this isn’t what he is “known for” as he is a club DJ.


Do you need to read these links?


400 Years After the “First Thanksgiving”, the Tribe That Fed the Pilgrims Continues to Fight For its Land Amid Another Epidemic

The Difficulty of Remembering John Lennon Today

Interactive Map Reveals Which Indigenous Lands Your Living On

Mrs. Hering’s Original 1890 Chicken Pot Pie Recipe that Launched Marshall Field’s Food Service and the Walnut Room Restaurant.

Fisher-Price Toy Museum Instagram page is all you need for Christmas

Department Store Museum I shared this in Friday’s post but wanted to share it here too in case you didn’t see it because it is such a cool find.

Don’t Let Shopping Ruin Your Holiday Season

Make Yourself Immune to Secondhand Stress

Steve Aoki’s 15 Best Songs: Critics’ Picks | Billboard

I was watching Planes, Trains & Automobiles recently (because it’s something we always watch this time of year) and it made me rethink my favorite John Hughes movie. I think it’s that one. Then I found this article:

The John Candy Joke that Still Makes Steve Martin Cry

Also, John Candy’s daughter is absolutely lovely, looks so much like him, and has a YouTube channel where she interviews character actors and former SCTV alum who worked with her dad.

Do you need to read these?













Do you need to feel happy?



Courtesy/ Not Martha


Tiny gingerbread houses that sit on your mug


Courtesy/Vitamini Handmade

Decorating without a Christmas tree




Courtesy/ My Scandinavian Home

Making your own decorations


monogram marshmallows
Courtesy/ Etsy


Monogrammed Marshmallows



Do you need this commercial?



And as someone who spelled her name K-A-R-I in the 1970s and 1980s, I FEEL YOU, SHIORI.

Love, light, and healing to all of you, dear ones.


28 thoughts on “Screw it, I’m Eating Tater Tots- Episode 21 Do We Know It’s Christmas Time?”

  1. I just posted a comment (I hope—let me know if it didn’t come through) and then I was scrolling back through and realized I forgot to tell you one thing I know you’d love to know: The very first concert I ever attended was Helen Reddy. I was in first grade, and I LOVED her. 1971. Maybe 1972, depending on the time of year, which I can’t remember. My previous music crush was Andy Williams (which my older cousins who loved Donny Osmond—the 70s equivalent of Menudo—teased me about mercilessly), so clearly I was kind of a weird kid (musically and otherwise), but I will always treasure my memory of attending that concert with my mom. Also the Neil Diamond one I reluctantly attended with her in 7th grade, but that’s a different sort of story.

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    1. This is the only comment that came through.

      OMG, I love this. You need to watch the documentary then. It’s a bit cheesy but I did kind of love it.
      I LOVE ANDY WILLIAMS. You’re going to laugh. In the mid-’90s, I had a tape in my car of his Christmas music and listened to it on the way to and from work. Even in the summer.
      I feel so exposed.


    2. OMG Rita…. Helen Reddy was my first concert too but I was in 7th grade. The opening act was Barry Manilow and it was at an outdoor place here in Ohio called Blossom Music Center.

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  2. I totally need an underpants wearing squirrel…. I mean, who doesn’t? And the mug hugging gingerbread house is divine. But I don’t care how low my vibrations are, I’m not giving up gin.

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  3. Empty Garden has always been one of my favorite Elton John songs. I remember so clearly the day John Lennon was killed. It was my freshman year at Bowling Green. It was the week leading into finals so I was studying in the first floor common room of McDonald Hall, with the radio going of course. I mean you can’t study in complete silence. 😊 The DJ broke in to announce he had been shot and everyone was just shocked. Hard to believe it’s been 40 years, or that I am 40 years older. That just can’t be right! Thanks so much for sharing the video. It was nice to hear the song again.

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  4. The other day Eric was like, “who would watch the Crown?” and then I saw that they have Diana this season and I was like, me, I would watch the Crown. I don’t care much for the royals, but who doesn’t love Princess Diana?! Oh and about the vibrations. I just started Yoga and I can tell it is changing me. I look forward to it, I miss it when I don’t do it, and I feel so in tune while I’m doing it.

    And yes, I do need a squirrel wearing underpants.

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    1. Ani, I am solely watching The Crown to get to the Diana years LMAO.

      I love that it is changing you! We are going to be all changed and shit by next year. That is going to be so amazing when I come sleep in the tent in your yard. I hope I am a best-selling author by then. 😉

      We all need the squirrel.


  5. Wait we are SUPPOSED to use crystals? Like crystal meth? I kid. Even when I am super tired, I have to workout. I’ve had maybe two glasses of wine the entire pandemic, so I guess I am so barely vibrating. I wonder if I have a pulse. 😉

    I have the same hair as Ricky Martin, but mine is more scragglie and less artsy and thin. Bottom line, he wears it better than me.

    Mini and I watched one episode of The Crown. We want to keep watching, but haven’t had the chance. It is harder to commit to watching an episode because it is an hour – unlike Dead to Me. Which is silly, because we rarely watched just one episode of Dead to Me.

    Trains, Planes, and Automobiles is one of my favorites. Love John Candy.

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    1. I have no idea how to use crystals either. Like are they supposed to be worn or held or dangled? No clue. Barely vibrating made me laugh loudly.

      So now you’re new nickname is Ricky.

      There are several episodes of The Crown that are snoozers. Boring. And I’m like, why am I watching this again? Then they get me! Bam! It’s very good once you get further in. Again, I’m just in for the Diana years. 😂

      ME TOO. He was the best. ❤️


  6. I am 100% sending a card to Tonda.
    So, it’s YOU we need to talk to about Menudo? 😉 Kidding. I remember the name, but they weren’t on my radar. I was probably stalking Billy Idol and Simon Lebon around that time; I had bigger fish to fry. I do wonder if Ricky Martin knows that you are the one to thank for his success though.
    I need to watch the Helen Reddy movie!!
    I need squirrels in underwear. I love LOVE the Crown!
    OMG. EVH and Wolfgang. THE TEARS!!!
    SO many good things in this post, it’s hard to mention them all. I was trying my damndest to do the interactive map to see what indigenous people were original to where I live. (I believe it’s the Seminole Indians) but I could not get it to work. Surely it was user error.
    TINY GINGERBREAD HOUSES. Sorry, I got excited.

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    1. Oh, thank you so much, friend. She will appreciate it so. ❤️

      So what you are saying is that I should ask Mr. Martin to send his residual checks to me?

      You do need to watch that Helen Reddy movie. I liked it! Mike wouldn’t have liked it so I watched it when he wasn’t here. It took me four hours to watch it because I would pause it and do other things. It’s like I needed to absorb it. It wasn’t deep or anything. 😂

      Every time I watch that Distance video I cry. It’s so touching. What a good dad. What a good son. ❤️

      I did the map and there were five tribes in my area! I’ve heard of all of the names before because I have seen them on rivers, streets, towns and the like.

      I love that you try to comment on everything. That makes me so happy. ❤️


  7. I will send Tonda a card. I can’t imagine being in a medical facility (hospital, nursing home) all alone, not being able to have any visitors. So heartbreaking.

    Speaking of cards, I got yours today and I loved it. A handwritten note ~ you made my day!

    Have you watched Hillbilly Elegy? That was really good. Brian and I are now in the middle of watching The Queen’s Gambit and loving.


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    1. I think that is what no one is thinking about. The other side of Covid. The people who are sick and can’t have their loved ones visit because of the restrictions. Thank you for sending her one. ❤️

      I am so glad it made your day! 😘

      I did watch Hillbilly Elegy! It was really good. We have The Queens Gambit on our list. Need to watch that.


  8. I am a little rusty, so of course have forgotten that the best strategy for me here would be to take notes so I don’t forget all of my insightful comments by the time I get to the end of the post. Next time! I want to be surprised by the Menudo thing, but I’m not Kari-I could never underestimate the coolness of a girl with such fashion sense. The yokes and chests of my sweaters were never so exquisitely adorned! Empty Garden–what I lacked in pitch and tone, I made up for in feeling and volume on that one. I hope Tonda like a good ramble, as that is what I can give.I must recommend Tom Papa’s standup You’re Doing Great (and any others of his you find as well). I thought the gingerbread men cookies at Trader Joe’s that rest their crotches on your coffee cup were cute (wait, that doesn’t sound cute at all), but those houses?!?!?! (swoon). My mom didn’t put up a tree this year, so I went over there expecting to feel all like a burnt out bulb…her house is bee-you-ti-ful!!!! There is decor everywhere and somehow it is so tastefully done, as opposed to the tag sale technique I seem to use year after year. (How did I remember everything I wanted to comment on so that I could just keep talking?!?! I didn’t. I opened up the post on my phone while commenting on the computer) Thanks for being here, friend!

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    1. I love that you started out the comment with, “I’m a little rusty..”

      I know that Tonda will LOVE your note and in fact, I knew you would send her one. I know you of all people can appreciate all that a nursing home resident needs during this time, my dear friend. 🙂

      I just saw Tom Papa on my Netflix feed the other night! So I shall add him to my watching list.

      I love that your mom’s house is BEAUTIFUL! That makes me so happy for her and you! Sending all of you so much hugs and love. I have missed you and your comments so much. 🙂


  9. Steve Aoki is an argument in this house. Some people love him. Some people do not. I’m not admitting the camp to which I belong.

    I love tator tot posts! I imagine they are so much work but they make me smile. Thank you for them!

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  10. We were there (at her window) the night she got her first two cards from classmates. I know she felt so much love and support just from those two….getting more from all over will blow her away. Thank you, Kari, for including Tonda, and thank you to all who send cards, or even just good vibes her way.

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