over the weekend, i found a photo of myself: i have a vivid memory of this time in my life that i regularly think about. the sky is blue and cloudless. i hear the song "afternoon delight" playing.funny side story about that song.- my dear friend rebecca, who grew up in the philippines, once told… Continue reading childhood in a picture
Category: Life
100 more things i do not love- part three
i've seen this quote a lot over the last month: "i sat with my anger long enough until she told me her real name was grief." -c.s. lewis i had seen that quote before my dad died, but it has come up several times in books i've been reading and in things people have sent me.… Continue reading 100 more things i do not love- part three
colonoscopy? sure, i’ll have another
side note: i had this set to publish in mid-march and then my dad's health got worse. i considered scrapping this post altogether, but i also feel the need for a lighter post. trigger warning: i will be talking about bodily functions in today's post. if this not your type of post, you might want… Continue reading colonoscopy? sure, i’ll have another
screw it, i’m eating tater tots – episode 62
if you’re new to my blog, welcome! here is an explanation of the tater tot post. rose, bud, thorn i read about it here. basically, what is/was the positive aspect of your week, what are you looking forward to, and what is the negative? i felt that this post was the perfect place for this type of… Continue reading screw it, i’m eating tater tots – episode 62
birthday week
my birthday falls on a sunday, the 28th. last week, i asked anna when i should consider my birthday week, sunday to sunday? or does it start on my birthday and last until may 5th? when my dad decided to go home and do hospice, he and i had some time alone to talk. one… Continue reading birthday week
dad
my dad died last friday. writing that feels weird. reading it feels weirder. my dad had some symptoms that landed him back in the hospital. those symptoms were later diagnosed as myasthenia gravis, an autoimmune disorder. he seemed to be getting better. some days were good, while others were not. one morning, he sent us… Continue reading dad